No matter what relationship you are in, each person will have to constantly struggle and learn to become a better version of themselves. Here are eight lessons about relationships you’ll want to take to heart.    

1. A beautiful relationship cannot be measured or measured

You may have heard that a good relationship is often the result of balanced efforts from both sides. However, we (often unconsciously) tend to value our own efforts more highly than the dedication of others. For example, when you and your partner share housework, even though you both have equal tasks, in the end everyone will feel like they do more work than the other. 

So, instead of comparing who gives more than who, just give that relationship your most sincere and devoted heart.

2. Beauty exists in the smallest things

Throughout the journey of life, the small moments that you accidentally miss are what make up your life. Enjoy every moment you have with your family , friends and yourself, because when time passes, you may regret missing those beautiful moments. 

3. Trust your intuition 

Have you ever felt like you wanted to have a couple like many of your friends your age, but still wanted to enjoy the comfort and freedom of single life? Listen to that intuition.  

Do what you really want and follow the compass of life, don’t do something just because everyone else is doing it. 

4. If you feel like a relationship is toxic, it is

Everything happens for a reason, the same goes for a failed relationship . At that time, you can choose between trying to hold on and hurting yourself, or letting go and continuing to find what is worthy of you. 

Even though you may feel pain during this time, remember that darkness can be a gift that pushes you towards the light.

5. Be patient 

Maybe you’ve heard too much about patience and feel bored, but the truth is that perseverance plays a huge role not only in relationships but also in yourself.  

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“One minute of patience, ten years of peace” (One minute of patience, ten years of peace) – Greek proverb.  

6. It is normal to fear CHANGE 

Fear of change and unknown things is a normal thing in life. So, accept the ups and downs while fighting for what you believe in and face the things you don’t understand with an open mind. Knowing this, you will be more resilient and build your own ability to heal . After all, remember that no matter what happens, you will get through it. 

7. Everyone is equal and has the right to be respected  

Everyone has the right to express their opinion. Therefore, in any relationship, we must always be willing to open our hearts to other people’s worldviews, respecting their opinions, knowing full well that disagreements can cause division. 

8. Love will win 

In JKRowling’s Harry Potter series , the character Albus Dumbledore once said: “Happiness can be found even in the darkest times, if only one remembers to light the lamp” (Happiness can be found even in the darkest times). of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light) . 

Indeed, love conquers all. Even if you haven’t been able to find the partner you’ve been waiting for for a long time, or have gone through a relationship that makes you miserable… always believe that love never disappears and you will be okay.