Nowadays, everywhere I go, I hear people talking about single girls, especially people of the same age as me, women over 30!. Society believes that it is difficult for women over 30 to get married, because we are old and belong to the category of “difficult girls, difficult to please, not reasonable” … We were a bit annoyed when we heard it, but also found it fun. Because they and the people around them get married in their twenties and have children to take care of, women like us who are still single and unmarried become “abnormal”! I think they are the “problematic” ones, because their thinking and knowledge seem to be unable to keep up with the new status and perspectives of modern and advanced women from all over the world. .

Living alone has many benefits, including:

1. Being single means being free to do what you want

You can go anywhere, do anything you like, come home late from work, sleep over with a single girl, and be free to make your own decisions without having to depend on anyone. . Even when dating, if you’re interested in a relationship with someone, you can date just for fun without anyone forcing you. These relationships will develop into love later, who knows?

2. First kisses never end

When you are single, the possibility of having your first kiss with someone is always very likely. You have time to choose the perfect lover with sweet and emotional first kisses. Once you have chosen a man for yourself, there are no more first kisses because you are only allowed to kiss one man in your life.

3. Spend more lavishly on the needs of enjoying life

When you are single, you have the right to use money more freely for the needs of enjoying life such as shopping, luxury dining, traveling abroad… Because when you get married, what will you spend it on? You also have to calculate so as not to affect the future of your family and children. When you have a family, every spending decision must be discussed.

4. Have plenty of private space and be allowed to be a little messy

When you are living alone, every space in the closet is yours, you don’t need to share it with anyone. You can hang or fold clothes when putting them in the closet. When you wake up, you don’t have to fold blankets and blankets right away. After cooking, you don’t have to wash the dishes right away. Clothes can be piled up and washed once a week, when you see home. If it’s dirty, sweep or wipe it once, you don’t have to do it every day… However, when you have a family, everything in the house needs to be done, especially when you have small children and you always want to set an example for them. child.

5. Life doesn’t have many “responsibilities”

When you come home tired from work, you don’t have to pick up your children from kindergarten, rush home to cook, clean the house, you don’t have to carry out the responsibilities of parents with their children. However, having few responsibilities does not mean living a carefree life, women still have to take responsibility for what they do and always learn how to become a trustworthy person.

6. Have time to focus on your career and other goals

Being single means you have more time for yourself and your career. You will use this single time to focus on achieving your career goals, personal ambitions, and meeting your own needs and interests, such as backpacking around the world. As long as you always strive and don’t lose yourself, you will succeed. You will become more mature and will find yourself an ideal life for your journey after the age of 30.

7. Rich travel experience & dare to be more adventurous

If you want to explore a new land, it’s best to go alone. When traveling with a group of friends or with a lover, the travel experience will be reduced because of distracted concentration and concern for the companion. Traveling while single helps you have more enriching travel experiences. You can even move freely and live in different cities around the world.

8. Meet more people

Single people are often more extroverted and approachable, so they can meet more people and expand their friendships with more interesting experiences. For married people, going out, socializing and meeting new groups of friends will be limited because of time constraints. Married people will have to prioritize time to take care of their family and raise children.

9. Avoid many crises and regrets

Perhaps you have been advised by your elders to wait patiently and to get married and have children by age 30. Maybe when you hear them say that, you wonder why that is. But actually what adults say is absolutely right because getting married in your 30s can help you avoid the mental crises and many regrets that your 20s bring.

Of course not all women will have to go through this experience. In fact, many women who enter family life too early or fall in love too early can feel regret and regret about their decisions. To our single ladies, just be happy and enjoy life. When the prince appears, he will make your heart beat, your legs tremble, and happiness will make you smile from the heart. Whatever happens will happen… it will come naturally and full of surprises.